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113: These 3 Unlikely Books Made Me More Productive
You’re Reading the Wrong Books
Hi Mate!
I’m confident you’ve been chasing productivity for years.
You’ve tried every productivity hack, tested multiple systems, tweaked your routine, and read countless productivity books—yet you’re still stuck in the same cycle.
Maybe, like my old self, your days are filled with endless to-do lists, constant distractions, mind-wrecking stress, and a never-ending battle against burnout.
No matter how hard you try, breaking free feels impossible.
If you can relate, know that you’re not alone.
This was my story too. And it might be yours now.
But what if I told you there’s a reason you’re stuck?
The truth is, you’ve been reading the wrong books all along.
Let’s take a moment to reflect.
Ask yourself:
How many hours have you spent testing new productivity systems, hacks, and expert advice or watching endless YouTube videos from productivity gurus?
And how often did you end up feeling more overwhelmed, burned out, or stressed than before?
I asked myself these same questions, and the answers weren’t pretty.
I realized I had fallen into the trap of toxic productivity.
If you want to live a more balanced, healthier, and meaningful life, it’s time to escape that trap.
Here are three unexpected books that helped me unlock real productivity—and they just might do the same for you.
Marcus Aurelius’ Meditations is a collection of personal reflections the Roman Emperor wrote for his own self-improvement.
Though it was never intended for publication, it has become a timeless guide to wisdom and self-discipline.
While this may not seem like a typical productivity book, it offers profound lessons that transformed my life.
Before reading it, my mind was always in overdrive, overwhelmed by distractions that kept me from focusing on meaningful work.
Meditations introduced me to the power of mindfulness—the practice of being fully present.
Marcus emphasizes this idea repeatedly throughout his writings, even though he doesn’t use the word “mindfulness.”
By embracing this philosophy, I learned how to tune out distractions and focus deeply on what truly matters.
As Marcus Aurelius writes:
“Let not future things disturb you, for you will come to them, if it shall be necessary, having with you the same reason which you now use for present things.”
This lesson extended far beyond productivity.
It helped me cultivate patience, manage stress, and face challenges with a calm and centered mind.
The wisdom of Meditations continues to guide me toward a healthier and more intentional way of working and living.
Recommendation:
If you’re curious how other Stoic principles helped me break free from toxic productivity and embrace a healthier approach, check out this article.
It dives deeper into ancient wisdom that’s had a lasting impact on my mindset.
At one point, I fell for the illusion of overnight success.
I don’t even remember how the idea took root, but it grew unchecked and drained my mental health.
I chased big wins and quick results, constantly pushing myself to the limit.
But when progress didn’t come fast enough, I ended up frustrated, burned out, and filled with self-doubt.
Then I read The Compound Effect, and it completely changed my perspective.
This book shattered the myth of overnight success.
It taught me that meaningful change comes not from sudden leaps but from small, consistent actions taken daily.
Here’s the formula Hardy shares:
SMALL, SMART CHOICES + CONSISTENCY + TIME = SUCCESS
What often looks like overnight success is just the result of smart efforts compounded over time.
Hardy also emphasizes the power of choice—how even the smallest decisions shape the course of our lives.
Too often, we make choices on autopilot, influenced by habit or social pressure.
But it’s these seemingly minor decisions that can either lead to success or steer us off course.
Some of the insights that resonated most with me:
95% of what we feel, think, and achieve is the result of learned habits.
With repetition, any behavior—good or bad—becomes automatic.
Even if many habits form unconsciously, we have the power to change them.
The habits we nurture today will either build a better future or lead to repeated failures.
This principle didn’t just help me in my work—it also improved my health, relationships, and overall well-being.
Since adopting these lessons, I’ve stopped chasing quick wins and learned to trust the process of small, steady progress.
That shift has made all the difference.
The Compound Effect didn’t just change how I approach productivity—it transformed how I live.
This book is one of the reasons I’ve been able to stay consistent with my newsletter and reach thousands of readers in less than a year, despite all the challenges.
Recommendation:
If you want to build solid habits that last, I highly recommend Atomic Habits, Tiny Habits, and Mini Habits.
These books, like Hardy’s, helped me stay consistent and achieve long-term results, including growing my newsletter despite life’s challenges.
Every day, I woke up and rushed to cross as many things off my to-do list as possible.
But no matter how much I did, the list never seemed to end—and life felt empty.
I was busy, but I often felt like I wasn’t accomplishing anything meaningful.
I wasted time, energy, and focus on tasks that didn’t align with my deeper values, leaving me unfulfilled.
Then I read Man’s Search for Meaning, and it changed everything.
This book showed me why having a clear purpose behind everything I do is essential.
It helped me understand the power of why.
As Frankl writes:
“Everyone has his own specific vocation or mission in life; everyone must carry out a concrete assignment that demands fulfillment. Therein he cannot be replaced, nor can his life be repeated. Thus, everyone’s task is as unique as his specific opportunity to implement it.”
Frankl’s story and teachings inspired me to find my own “why.”
Once I identified it, I stopped wasting time on meaningless work and began focusing on what truly matters.
This shift didn’t just make me more productive—it transformed my life.
Living with purpose not only enhanced my productivity but also improved my relationships, health, and overall well-being.
But the lessons from Man’s Search for Meaning go far beyond productivity.
It taught me resilience in the face of adversity, gratitude for life’s small moments, and how to find meaning even in the most challenging circumstances.
This mindset shift has been invaluable, not just in my work but in how I navigate life’s ups and downs.
Recommendation:
If you haven’t read Start With Why, I encourage you to give it a try.
Although it’s a business book, it reinforced the importance of purpose in my personal life—helping me align my actions with what truly matters.
Final Thoughts
These three books—Meditations, The Compound Effect, and Man’s Search for Meaning—may not be traditional productivity guides, but they’ve redefined what productivity means for me.
They helped me escape toxic productivity and live a more balanced, intentional life.
And they might just do the same for you.
Catch you on Thursday at 1:23 PM EDT!
Discipulus.
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